Learning to See

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I am an amateur photographer, and by amateur I don’t mean, as is sometimes implied, a gifted photographer who happens not to do it for a living. I just like carrying a camera around, hoping I’ll get an occasional good snapshot.

Once, a few years ago, I took a walk with a professional photographer, one who takes pictures people will pay money for. I watched him carefully. There weren’t any obvious tricks. But he knew something I didn’t: he knew how to see. He would see and take a picture of something I hadn’t even noticed. He could capture the world in such a way that it was beautiful, touching, profound. I was in the same places he was, looking at the same things, but I didn’t see them as beautiful as they looked in his pictures.

Since then I’ve tried to do what he did: to see the perfect scene, the location from which everything looks best, the moment when there’s an alignment of elements, the time of day when the light is right. I rarely succeed.

Life, I think, is about learning to see. Not through a lens, necessarily, or even with the eyes. But as you perceive what is around you, to preserve it all in your memories and expectations in ways that will make life lovelier, and worth continuing.

That’s not the same as “seeing things as they really are, not through rose-colored glasses,” as you’ll hear the so-called realists say. What these people see is a dark, unappealing world. They don’t try to align the elements for beauty. They look at the plain ugliness of things, and there is plenty of it. I see it, too. Both my parents died of cancer. Whole continents are corrupt, millions dying. Every other week brings another earthquake or hurricane. The ugliest of all is war—worse than crime, worse than murder, for it is killing under principle, so that we can congratulate ourselves as we splatter another person’s brains out.

Looking at the world in plain light is despair.

Some years ago I was visiting with an acquaintance in his office, when I noticed a photo of an attractive woman on his bookshelf. “Who’s in the picture?” I asked. “My wife,” he said. I knew his wife, and knew that although she was a marvelous person, she didn’t turn heads. Perhaps guessing my thoughts, “She went to a glamour photographer,” he said. On closer inspection I could see that it was she, but transformed by filters, makeup, expression, into someone more striking than she was in normal light. It was a pleasure to see her look as beautiful as I knew her to be.

We Christians dress up existence to look better than it is. We cast a kinder, more flattering light upon it. Jesus is the lens through which we look at everything, and so we see hope even in hopeless situations. We say that because we are loved by The Creator of the Universe we can be confident, strong, loving in our turn. We claim that even the certainty of death needn’t drain our hope, because there is life beyond this one.

None of this is apparent to the skeptical eye. This is a different kind of seeing. The skeptics say we’re fooling ourselves, and who can prove beyond doubt they’re wrong? But it is all we have. If we are to survive here, we dare not see in any other way. That is what faith is, and what faith requires.

And so we peer into the haze, trying to make out what cannot quite be seen: the full scope of existence, life and beyond life, time and eternity, scientific certainties as well as those things we can only hope for. We describe it all as more beautiful, more just and principled, more protected and cared for, than it appears to be. We declare it all redeemable, life a benison even when it is painful, people dear and well-intentioned even when they are hurtful.

And we say—we even act as if—that at the end of all of this, God will make everything right.

Something beautiful, something good
All my confusion He understood
All I had to offer Him was brokenness and strife
But He made something beautiful of my life.
(—Bill and Gloria Gaither)

Donna Haerich - Sun, 02/21/2010 - 11:55

Not only must we we "see" others through God's eyes - we also need to see ourselves as God sees us. He says, "you are altogether beautiful, my beloved, there is no spot or blemish in you."

God looks at us and sees us as we were created to be - and treats us accordingly.

Thank you, Loren, for an uplifting meditation.

Jeff Boyd - Sun, 02/21/2010 - 12:22

Loren and Donna, Beautiful. Thanks.

Elaine Nelson - Sun, 02/21/2010 - 13:39

This is one of the great secrets for longevity: those who live longest have an unusually happy attitude toward both life and people. Looking for the good in everyone also allows us, as Donna says, to accept ourselves as being beautiful in God's eyes rather than emulating the glamour photos we often see.

Rachel Davies - Sun, 02/21/2010 - 20:43

This is truth, Loren. Well said. Thank you.

Sona - Sun, 02/21/2010 - 23:35

Thank you Loren. Such a pleasant thought.

Tom Zwemer - Tue, 02/23/2010 - 03:53

Great Observation and application Loren! Now the time is ripe to write an piece: "Learning to Listen!"

Clinton wore out "I feel your pain!"

I have a dear friend dying from an advanced stage of colon cancer. He is now scheduled for a fourth or fifth round of chemo. He is told, it will be much more painful than the prior series. It will prolong his life but will not cure his cancer. He has less tha six months to live.

He would like to forego the treatment and be placed on a hospice status. Yet he is afraid, that the Lord wil not look kindly on that decision.

Can the ministry hear his story and plea and give him comfort in his decision? Certainly there is a balm in Gilead!

Many is the time that I heard out an employee's story of seeming abuse by the institution or one of its middle managers.

After they Told their story and felt it had been heard. They would say. If only someone had listened down the line, i never would have gotten this far. Just having someone willing to hear the tale was enough.

Bonnie Dwyer - Tue, 02/23/2010 - 17:16

As the good people at NPR's Story Corps put it, Tom, listening is an act of love.
Seeing people, really seeing them can also be such an act.
Thanks, Loren, for reminding us of that.

Tom Zwemer - Tue, 02/23/2010 - 20:15

Bonnie well put. Tom

Loren Fenton - Wed, 02/24/2010 - 13:15

Great job again, Loren. I'm always blessed by your thoughts.

Marchita Gilson - Wed, 02/24/2010 - 18:57

Thanks Loren- I now have something to contemplate rather than family woes, etc. I just really appreciated your piece. I will save it and read it more than once.

Henry Miller - Sat, 02/27/2010 - 14:39

Thanks, Loren, for the powerful insight. We (especially I) needed to heed this in two ways. First, the way I look at those whom I find anoying, and second, even with my own faults, God sees something good in me.

Bill Hirr - Fri, 05/28/2010 - 09:24

¿ ÷ i TrusT YoU don'T miND iF i ReBLoGgeD parT oF thiS... =

http://bhirr.blogspot.com/

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